Sugar and spice, and everything’s nice.

My husband and I have decided to spice things up a bit. You know how it goes after almost seven years of marriage, where every day feels the same? As empty nesters and second-time-arounders, Les and I are each pretty open about what we want and need in our relationship. So, after several months of back-and-forth on how to make things more exciting, we finally took a big, adventurous step.

We adopted a kitten! And boy is she sweet. Meet Nadia!

So spunky!

This was not a light decision. A 4-month-old kitty needs constant monitoring, extra playtime and frequent feedings. And then there are the midnight zoomies, constant crashes, jingly toys everywhere and the never-ending untangling of the window blind cords. Nadia has given us a physical and emotional workout, but she is undeniably adorable.

And then there’s Taz, our 12-year old fur baby— about equal to my husband’s age of 64— for whom this has been no cakewalk.

One of the few pictures that captured how small Nadia really was. 🙂

When our beloved dog, Nilla, went to the Rainbow Bridge back in March, Taz found herself the only pet in the house for the first time in her life. She has appreciated being the sole recipient of our attention when we are home, but anytime we take a trip longer than a couple of days, it’s clear to us that she is lonely. This sweet little fluff ball, we hoped, would change that.

If you don’t think this is precious, I’m not sure we can be friends.

A couple of weeks into the introduction process (slow and steady, in compliance with all the YouTube videos offered by “the Cat Daddy,” Jackson Galaxy), something seemed very “off” for Miss Taz, and this nervous mama booked a vet appointment. Taz got a full exam, a couple of chest X-rays and a round of blood work, but nobody could offer a solid reason for her coughing and gulping, or explain why she literally lost her meow and spent two days hiding under the bed. We came home with a bunch of papers and some pain meds (for what, I’m not sure) but by the next day, her symptoms had expanded to include a wet, rattly cough that might have been nothing or could have been devastating. Ugh.

Did we make a mistake getting a kitten? I was terrified that something serious was wrong with Taz and now— with the demands of a sass-butt little whippersnapper in the house— we would not be able to focus on taking care of our senior cat, whom I had promised would always be my baby. By that time, of course, it was the weekend. The blood work results from our Friday vet visit wouldn’t be in until Monday and I was a total wreck.

Thankfully, the emergency vet is only five minutes from our house, but that was the only easy part of this adventure. Six hours, two more X-rays, an unpleasant confrontation with the reception team, another round of blood work and— wait for it—  a thousand dollars later, Taz was diagnosed with what amounts to a kitty cold. Respiratory infection of some sort, and the vet said it is common for a shelter kitten to bring this kind of thing into the home. Not that anyone is blaming the kitten; she did nothing wrong, and showed no symptoms herself.

No wonder Taz was mad; she was surrounded by dog pictures!

Now, there’s a fair argument here that when Taz started sounding worse, she was actually feeling a little better. By the time the vet techs called for Taz, she was pissed. She hates the carrier crate, doesn’t like to be touched (or even spoken to) by strangers and didn’t appreciate the wait. They sedated her for the X-rays, for what little good it did because she still fought them like hell, as she did me and Les when we tried to coax her into the crate at home. She was described by both the tech and the doctor as “a very spicy kitty,” a big departure from the limp, near-lifeless cats they are used to seeing in their facility. All I could say was, “That’s my girl!” I was so grateful that her problem wasn’t more serious. An antibiotic injection and liquid steroid regimen was all she needed. It has been almost four weeks, and Taz is doing great.

With the crisis averted, we didn’t even mention this emergency visit to most of our friends here, because at that point, it had been handled and our fur baby was on the mend. Lo and behold, getting Taz feeling better has also led to more positive interactions between her and the new kitten— that is, except for the ongoing battle over who gets the top spot in the cat tree, which Taz had ignored until Nadia showed up. It’s all quite entertaining!

Nadia is the sweetest, most affectionate and loving kitten I’ve ever raised. A perfect complement to the spicy diva who sets the tone here.

Taz remains queen of the perch!

All’s well that ends well, and this story is far from over. 🥰


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23 thoughts on “Sugar and spice, and everything’s nice.

  1. Welcome back & kudos on your cats. Cute! We have a senior and not-so senior cat too. The grand dame is a persnickety kitty and it took some time for her to get used the younger rambunctious cat. But they’re good now

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    • Ah, somehow I missed your comment about our kitties, Sandy! I’m glad to hear success stories from another cat mom, and we are still witnessing some ups and downs with these two but it’s mostly settled into a routine. The kitten still wants to play play play, and Queen Taz mostly just bats her down with a paw. It makes for great entertainment! 😂

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  2. What a beautiful little kitten. She is lucky to have a good home. Congradulations on the new addition to your family. We had our own dog crisis as our beloved pouch just spend 3 days in the animal ICU for several issues. Happy to report that she is back home and back to her normal self. Too back the little pets can’t talk — it can be quite a puzzle deciphering their symptoms.

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    • I could not agree more, Maylee! We try so hard to read their signals, but sometimes it’s just a mystery for the vet to figure out with expensive bloodwork and other diagnostics. I’m so glad to know that your pup is back in good health!!! I can’t imagine life without these fur babies. Thanks for your good wishes as we continue to let Nadia melt our hearts over here. 🥰

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    • They really are both sweet in their own way, Mimi! Taz had become really docile and cuddly after the passing of our dog this year, and it’s actually kind of refreshing to see her spicy side again! 😂

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    • The emergency vet especially is straight-up highway robbery, Dorothy! They know they have you over a barrel, and the sad reality is that we only have one option in our city for emergency pet care. But we are so grateful that Taz did not have anything serious going on. She hardly ever gets sick, so my mind went to “worst case scenario” in about 5 seconds. The girls are getting along fine, and Nadia is learning quickly that the best time to initiate a snuggle session is when Taz is already warm and sleepy. 🥰

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  3. pegf418's avatar pegf418

    I love the pictures of your beautiful kitties 🐱
    What a happy ending to your story, which by the way, touched every emotion I ever had. ❤️
    So glad that Taz is ok, and Nadia is becoming her friend.
    Peg Fithian

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    • Thank you, Bernadette! I’m sorry to have been so absent lately. New job, new baby at home and just not enough time for all of it. The good news is that I was still cooking, so I’ll have plenty to share soon! 😁

      Nadia really is adorable! Taz is still a bit skeptical but there are plenty of moments that I find them nose to nose or otherwise in harmony. I’m optimistic.

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      • Well, sibling rivalry can be difficult at times on the “mom”. I read the funniest explanations of sibling rivalry. “Imagine you are in a happy marriage and everything is groove until one day your husband comes home and says, guess what? We are going to get another wife. Isn’t that great?”

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